Disasters are upsetting experiences for everyone involved. Children, senior citizens, people with disabilities and people for whom English is not their first language are especially at risk and are likely to need extra care and help. But everyone, even the people that others look up to for guidance and assistance, are entitled to their feelings and deserve support throughout the recovery process. Not everyone will have an emotional reaction to the flood, and those who do will react in their own unique way.
Recovery Takes Time
When we experience a disaster or other stressful life event, we can have a variety of reactions, all of which can be common responses to difficult situations. Disaster stress affects everyone differently. Most disaster stress reactions are temporary and resolve by themselves over time. Look for ways to take one step at a time and focus on taking care of your disaster related needs and those of your family. Getting ourselves and our lives back in a routine that is comfortable for us takes time.
Take care of your safety. Find a safe place to stay and make sure your physical health needs and those of your family are addressed. Seek medical attention if necessary.
Limit your exposure to the sights and sounds of disaster, especially on television, the radio and in the newspapers.
Eat healthy. During times of stress, it is important that you maintain a balanced diet and drink plenty of water.
Get some rest. With so much to do, it may be difficult to have enough time to rest or get adequate sleep. Giving your body and mind a break can boost your ability to cope with the stress you may be experiencing.
Stay connected with family and friends. Giving and getting support is one of the most important things you can do. Try to do something as a family that you have all enjoyed in the past.
Be patient with yourself and with those around you. Recognize that everyone is stressed and may need some time to put their feelings and thoughts in order. That includes you!
Set priorities. Tackle tasks in small steps.
Gather information about assistance and resources that will help you and your family members meet your disaster-related needs.
Stay positive. Remind yourself of how you’ve successfully gotten through difficult times in the past. Reach out when you need support, and help others when they need it.
When the Challenges Are Ongoing
Some people have experience coping with stressful life events and can feel better after a few days. Others find that their stress does not go away as quickly as they would like and it influences their relationships with their family, friends and others.
If you find yourself or a loved one experiencing some of the feelings and reactions listed below for two weeks or longer, this may be a sign that you need to reach out for additional assistance.
Crying spells or bursts of anger
Losing interest in things
Increased physical symptoms sucha as headaches or stomachaches
Feeling guilty, helpless or hopeless
Avoiding family and friends
Crisis counselors are often available through the American Red Cross, the Salvation Army, other voluntary agencies, as well as churches and synagogues. Additional mental health information may be found on the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Center for Mental Health Services’ website, or your county mental health agency.